VIRTUAL DOULA SUPPORT FOR NEURODIVERGENT FAMILIES

At TENDER.LY, we provide judgment-free, inclusive care tailored to your unique journey—whether you're navigating fertility, preparing for birth, adjusting to postpartum life, or finding the best feeding approach for your baby. Our virtual doula services are designed to support you with evidence-based guidance, hands-on help, and emotional reassurance, so you can feel confident and cared for every step

HOW WE CAN HELP

  • A neurodivergent father cradles his baby on lap.

    THE NEURODIVERGENT BIRTH PLANNING COURSE

    A self-paced, sensory-friendly course designed to help neurodivergent families build a low-stress, customized birth plan using visual + sensory planning tools to reduce overwhelm and increase confidence.

  • A baby peacefully nurses, supported by a doula providing compassionate, evidence-based infant feeding guidance.

    INCLUSIVE, EVIDENCE-BASED INFANT FEEDING SUPPORT

    Guiding families through chest/breastfeeding, formula feeding, combo feeding, pumping, and weaning with personalized, judgment-free care.

  • A father lovingly feeds their baby, supported by a virtual doula offering guidance to neurodivergent families.

    VIRTUAL DOULA SERVICES FOR PREGNANCY AND POSTPARTUM

    Holistic, virtual doula support for fertility, birth, and postpartum, offering personalized care, practical guidance, and emotional support to help families navigate every stage with confidence and ease.

"Every neurodivergent family deserves a supportive start that works for them—without judgment or pressure to fit a one-size-fits-all model. With the right support, parents can create rhythms that honor their unique needs, making pregnancy, birth, and postpartum a more empowered and sustainable experience."

Alix Myers, virtual doula and neurodivergent birth support specialist, providing online support through Tender.ly.

OUR VIRTUAL DOULA PACKAGES

30 MINUTE VIRTUAL CHECK-IN

A quick, supportive session to answer your pressing postpartum questions, troubleshoot feeding or sleep challenges, and provide reassurance—all from the comfort of your home.

$100

60 MINUTE VIRTUAL SUPPORT

A comprehensive session for in-depth guidance on feeding, sleep, recovery, and emotional well-being, tailored to your postpartum journey.

$175

Interested in more than one service? Ask about our bundles.

VIP PACKAGE

VIP PACKAGE

Tender.ly founder Alix Myers meeting with neurodivergent doula client virtually during virtual doula support package.

TENDER.LY VIP PACKAGE

Investment: $997

Bringing a baby into your life is a major transition, and you don’t have to do it alone. My VIP Doula Support Package is designed for parents who want ongoing, high-touch support from pregnancy through postpartum. This package provides personalized, in-depth care to help you feel prepared, supported, and confident in every stage of your journey. Whether you're navigating pregnancy, postpartum recovery, or newborn care, this all-inclusive package ensures you have expert guidance every step of the way.


WHAT’S INCLUDED?

BIRTH PLANNING

2 hr birth planning session with Alix and yourself (partners are encouraged to attend) to build your custom birth plan.

TEXT MESSAGE SUPPORT

Real-time text support for quick questions throughout the week.

1:1 VIRTUAL SUPPORT SESSIONS

4 × 30 mins ongoing support calls

POSTPARTUM PLANNING

2 hr Postpartum planning session where we get you and your family ready for a new baby. We will talk sleep, feeding, siblings, balance of responsibilities, boundaries and so much more.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

  • Neuroaffirming doula support means recognizing that every brain and body experiences pregnancy, birth, and parenting differently—and that’s not just okay, it’s something to celebrate. I tailor support to match your sensory preferences, your communication style, and your energy levels. That might look like shorter, structured calls, text-based check-ins, visual tools to prepare for appointments, or scripts to help you self-advocate with confidence. My goal is to create a care experience where you feel seen, heard, and empowered—not overwhelmed or misunderstood.

  • Absolutely. You do not need a formal diagnosis to work with me. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by standard care, needed more time to process information, or found typical appointments exhausting or confusing—you’re not alone, and you’re welcome here. Whether you identify as neurodivergent, suspect it, or just want a more individualized approach, I’ll meet you with support that fits who you are.

  • Accommodations can make a world of difference, and we’ll find the ones that work best for you. This might include visual summaries after our sessions, flexible scheduling, or using text instead of calls when that’s easier. If you have sensory needs, we can prep tools together like a birth space sensory kit or a communication card. I’ll always check in about what feels good, what doesn’t, and how we can adjust the way we work together so it feels empowering, not overwhelming.

  • Virtual doula support is all about making sure you feel held, heard, and guided—no matter where you are. During pregnancy, our sessions happen by video so we can talk face-to-face about how you’re really feeling. Whether you're navigating new symptoms, preparing for a prenatal appointment, or just trying to make sense of what’s happening in your body, I’m here to help you sort through it all. We’ll make space for questions, fears, and planning—without pressure. If you're overwhelmed by a list your provider gave you or unsure what that weird cramping means, I’ll help you feel grounded and informed.

    Throughout your pregnancy, you also have access to ongoing text support—perfect for those quick questions that pop up in between calls, or when you just need someone to remind you that you’re doing an incredible job.
    When labor begins, I’m on call 24/7. I can be with you over video, helping you track early labor signs or guiding your partner through hands-on support like counter-pressure, breathing, or hip squeezes. If things feel intense, I’m that steady voice reminding you that you’re safe and capable, walking you through each moment.

    After your baby is born, we continue meeting by video to process your experience, normalize the big feelings, and work through whatever’s showing up—whether that’s latching challenges, sleep confusion, emotional swings, or figuring out how to ask for what you need. I’ll also follow up with supportive text check-ins and reminders, so you’re never holding it all alone.

    Virtual support isn’t a backup plan—it’s an accessible, consistent, affirming way to walk through this season with someone who gets it and truly has your back.

TENDER.LY TESTIMONIALS

ADDITIONAL OFFERINGS

Neurodivergent mom holding newborn at a neurodivergent parenting support circle event.

NEURODIVERGENT PARENTING SUPPORT CIRCLE

A judgment-free, community space where neurodivergent parents can share experiences, discuss challenges, and explore neuroaffirming parenting strategies that work for their families.

A baby crawling on the floor during Tender.ly baby group with neuroaffirming topics.

BABY GROUP WITH NEUROAFFIRMING TOPICS

Weekly discussions on feeding, sensory needs, routines & self-advocacy, designed to support neurodivergent parents in navigating early parenthood in a way that works for their brains.

Neuroaffirming downloadable birth resource created by Tender.ly.

DOWNLOADABLE RESOURCES FOR NEURODIVERGENT FAMILIES

Clear, neuroaffirming resources on birth planning, feeding options, and more - designed to reduce overwhelm and support a confident birth and postpartum.