VIRTUAL DOULA SUPPORT FOR NEURODIVERGENT FAMILIES

At TENDER.LY, we provide judgment-free, inclusive care tailored to your unique journey—whether you're navigating fertility, preparing for birth, adjusting to postpartum life, or finding the best feeding approach for your baby. Our virtual doula services are designed to support you with evidence-based guidance, hands-on help, and emotional reassurance, so you can feel confident and cared for every step

HOW I CAN HELP

  • A neurodivergent father cradles his baby on lap.

    THE NEURODIVERGENT BIRTH PLANNING COURSE

    A self-paced, sensory-friendly course designed to help neurodivergent families build a low-stress, customized birth plan using visual + sensory planning tools to reduce overwhelm and increase confidence.

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  • A baby peacefully nurses, supported by a doula providing compassionate, evidence-based infant feeding guidance.

    INCLUSIVE, EVIDENCE-BASED INFANT FEEDING SUPPORT

    Guiding families through chest/breastfeeding, formula feeding, combo feeding, pumping, and weaning with personalized, judgment-free care.

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  • A father lovingly feeds their baby, supported by a virtual doula offering guidance to neurodivergent families.

    VIRTUAL DOULA SERVICES FOR PREGNANCY AND POSTPARTUM

    Holistic, virtual doula support for fertility, birth, and postpartum, offering personalized care, practical guidance, and emotional support to help families navigate every stage with confidence and ease.

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"Every neurodivergent family deserves a supportive start that works for them—without judgment or pressure to fit a one-size-fits-all model. With the right support, parents can create rhythms that honor their unique needs, making pregnancy, birth, and postpartum a more empowered and sustainable experience."

Alix Myers, virtual doula and neurodivergent birth support specialist, providing online support through Tender.ly.

MY VIRTUAL DOULA PACKAGES

30 MINUTE VIRTUAL CHECK-IN

A quick, supportive session to answer your pressing postpartum questions, troubleshoot feeding or sleep challenges, and provide reassurance—all from the comfort of your home.

$100

60 MINUTE VIRTUAL SUPPORT

A comprehensive session for in-depth guidance on feeding, sleep, recovery, and emotional well-being, tailored to your postpartum journey.

$175

Interested in more than one service? Ask about our bundles.

VIP PACKAGE

VIP PACKAGE

Tender.ly founder Alix Myers meeting with neurodivergent doula client virtually during virtual doula support package.

TENDER.LY VIP PACKAGE

Investment: $997

Bringing a baby into your life is a major transition, and you don’t have to do it alone. My VIP Doula Support Package is designed for parents who want ongoing, high-touch support from pregnancy through postpartum. This package provides personalized, in-depth care to help you feel prepared, supported, and confident in every stage of your journey. Whether you're navigating pregnancy, postpartum recovery, or newborn care, this all-inclusive package ensures you have expert guidance every step of the way.

WHAT’S INCLUDED?

BIRTH PLANNING

2 hr birth planning session with Alix and yourself (partners are encouraged to attend) to build your custom birth plan.

TEXT MESSAGE SUPPORT

Real-time text support for quick questions throughout the week.

1:1 VIRTUAL SUPPORT SESSIONS

4 × 30 mins ongoing support calls

POSTPARTUM PLANNING

2 hr Postpartum planning session where we get you and your family ready for a new baby. We will talk sleep, feeding, siblings, balance of responsibilities, boundaries and so much more.

TENDER.LY TESTIMONIALS

  • “Working with Alix was easy and helpful and so supportive. To have someone who truly listened and offered resources that helped me was invaluable. Do yourself a favor and work with Alix and invest in your own well being on your postpartum journey. Even if you think that you "won't need her" you do. “

    Stefanie K., Parent of 2

  • “Having Alix advocate for me in the delivery room took off so much pressure. Even just having her there helped me feel supported and better able to advocate for myself.”

    Christine J., Parent of 2

  • "My go-to person for everything pregnancy and postpartum. I highly reccomend!"

    Teddi L., Parent of 2

ADDITIONAL OFFERINGS

Neurodivergent mom holding newborn at a neurodivergent parenting support circle event.

NEURODIVERGENT PARENTING SUPPORT CIRCLE

A judgment-free, community space where neurodivergent parents can share experiences, discuss challenges, and explore neuroaffirming parenting strategies that work for their families.

A baby crawling on the floor during Tender.ly baby group with neuroaffirming topics.

BABY GROUP WITH NEUROAFFIRMING TOPICS

Weekly discussions on feeding, sensory needs, routines & self-advocacy, designed to support neurodivergent parents in navigating early parenthood in a way that works for their brains.

Neuroaffirming downloadable birth resource created by Tender.ly.

DOWNLOADABLE RESOURCES FOR NEURODIVERGENT FAMILIES

Clear, neuroaffirming resources on birth planning, feeding options, and more - designed to reduce overwhelm and support a confident birth and postpartum.